4 Simple Ways To Relax The Body & Mind  By Matt Clarkson

Why do we need to relax?  Life is tough.  It doesn't matter who you are or what you do, we all have to face many difficult and stressful situations.  Being at the effect of life can leave us feeling stressed, worried, angry, confused and frustrated.  Since the way we feel affects everything in our lives, if we can learn to relax we improve the way we feel and heal ourselves.

Why is that important?  When we feel bad, everything seems much worse than it is.  A bad mood is like a filter that prevents us from seeing the positive things in life.  Every little thing seems like another irritation.

If that’s something you can relate to -- take heart –- we all know what it’s like to feel stressed and frustrated.  The important thing is to have the tools to recover quickly and naturally, find yourself again, and get back on track.  Here are four tips to help you relax the body and mind:

Take A Break

When things are starting to get out of hand and you can feel yourself reaching threshold, STOP.  Finish what you’re doing.  Take a break before you start anything new.  If someone is driving you mad, make an excuse and leave the room!  Go and take a walk.  Get some fresh air, find some calm within and then prepare yourself to get stuck in again!

Listen To Relaxing Music

Music can have a powerful effect on your state.  I’m sure there have been times when you heard a piece of music and suddenly you felt great.  Maybe you have a song that reminds you of being in love?  Create a collection of music to help you relax.  Make a tape of those songs that make you smile to help you unwind.  Play it as often as you can...when you're at home, when you're working, when you're in your car.  You'll be surprised how good you'll begin to feel.

Avoid Stimulant

Tea, coffee, fizzy drinks and chocolate all contain caffeine.  Over the course of the day, this can add to your stress level considerably.  Why not prepare yourself a healthy alternative?  Bottled water, freshly squeezed fruit juice and herbal teas are excellent for maintaining your body's natural water balance and helping you keep cool under pressure.

Use A Soothing Voice

Use a relaxed and soothing tone of voice, not just out loud, but also when you talk to yourself.  A soft, low melodious tone opens up the relaxation circuits in your mind and helps you stay calm even in heated situations.

A friend of mine once told me “Life is a struggle.  But once you accept that, it becomes a lot easier.”  We can learn to deal with life’s challenges by setting aside some time to go to work on ourselves, developing a state of acceptance.  When we can learn to calm our mind and separate ourselves from our problems, we are on the road to significant improvement